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Communication Without Killing the Mood

Checking in can be the sexiest thing in the room, if you do it right.

By The Provocateur · 4 min read

The myth: talking about it ruins it. The truth: awkward talking ruins it. Confident talking is foreplay for the brain.

Keep it short and in the moment. ‘More?’ ‘Like that?’ ‘Pause?’ Three words that make people feel seen, not interrogated.

Agree on the big things before the night starts, so in the moment you only need the small words.

“A good check-in sounds like flirting, because it is.”

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